James Fitzgerald Therapy, PLLC

James Fitzgerald, MS, NCC, AAP, Psychotherapist

Strengthening Your Conscious Self © 2022

Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Training

Emotion Regulation Module

Activity 1: Pros and Cons of Changing Emotions

Complete this activity (or fill out the worksheet) when you are experiencing difficulties with:

  • Trying to decide whether to work on changing ineffective emotions.
  • Feeling willful/saying no to letting go of emotion mind.
  • Deciding whether to work on reducing your emotional reactions to specific events.
  • Feeling threatened whenever you think of letting go of emotions.
  • Not in the mood for being effective.

When completing this activity (or filling out the worksheet), think about these questions:

  • Is living in emotion mind in your best interest (i.e., effective) or not in your best interest (i.e., ineffective)?
  • Will refusing to regulate your own emotions create a new problem for you?
  • Is reducing immediate high emotions likely to increase your freedom or decrease it?
  • Is being attached to your emotions about a situation useful or not?
  • Is working to reduce your emotion really too much work?

Emotion Regulation Worksheet 1

Make a list of the pros and cons of changing the emotion you are struggling with

Make another list of the pros and cons of not changing your emotion
Staying in emotion mind, acting emotionally
Staying in emotion mind, acting emotionally
Regulate emotions and emotion actions
Regulate emotions and emotion actions
Were you acting from Wise Mind? Were you firmly being led by Self?