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Introduction to Emotion Regulation
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DBT Emotion Regulation Skills: Fun Facts About Emotions (Dr. Jennifer May)
DBT Emotion Regulation Skills: Introduction to the Emotion Regulation Module (Dr. Jennifer May)
- The goal of emotion regulation is to reduce emotional suffering. The goal is not to get rid of or suppress emotions; because emotions do have important functions in our lives.
- Emotion regulation skills help you:
- Change emotions that you (not other people) want to change
- Reduce the intensity of your emotions
- Reduce your vulnerability to becoming extremely or painfully emotional
- Increase your emotional resilience.
- Emotion regulation requires use of mindfulness skills, particularly nonjudgmental observation and description of your own current emotions.
- You have to know what an emotion is and what it does for you before you can effectively regulate it.
- There are four sections of lessons with four sets of handouts and worksheets for emotion regulation skills: understanding and naming emotions; changing emotional responses; reducing vulnerability to emotion mind; and managing really difficult emotions.
Goals of Emotion Regulation
This is the first lesson and handout in the emotion regulation module. This module is the longest in the DBT skills training program.
Emotion Regulation: Understanding & Naming Emotions
- [Activity] Example: Figuring Out What My Emotions Are Doing for Me
- [Activity] Emotion Diary
- [Activity] Example Emotion Diary
- [Lesson] What Makes it Hard to Regulate your Emotions
- [Lesson] Myths about Emotions.
- [Activity] Myths About Emotions
- [Lesson] A Model for Describing Emotions
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Anger Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Disgust Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Envy Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Fear Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Happiness Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion Jealousy Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion Love Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Sadness Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Shame Words
- [Lesson] Ways to Describe Emotion: Guilt Words
- [Activity] Observing and Describing Emotions
- [Activity] Observing and Describing Emotions
Emotion Regulation Changing Emotional Responses
- [Lesson] Overview: Changing Emotional Responses
- [Video] Check the Facts by Dr. Jennifer May
- [Lesson] Checking the Facts
- [Activity] Checking the Facts
- [Lesson] Examples of Emotions That Fit the Facts
- [Activity] Figuring out how to Change Unwanted Emotions
- [Video] Opposite to Emotion Action by Dr. Jennifer May
- [Lesson] Preparing for Opposite Action and Problem Solving
- [Lesson] Acting Opposite to the Current Emotion
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Fear
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Anger
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Disgust
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Envy
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Jealousy
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Love
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Sadness
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Shame
- [Lesson] Figuring out Opposite Actions: Guilt
- [Activity] Opposite action to Change Emotions
- [Lesson] Problem Solving
- [Activity] Problem Solving to Change Emotions
- [Lesson] Reviewing Opposite Action and Problem Solving
Emotion Regulation: Reducing Vulnerability to Emotion Mind
- [Lesson] Overview: Reducing Vulnerability to Emotion Mind—Building a Live Worth Living.
- [Activity] Steps for Reducing Vulnerability to Emotion Mind
- [Lesson] Accumulating Positive Emotions: Short Term
- [Lesson] Pleasant Events List.
- [Activity] Pleasant Events Diary
- [Lesson] Accumulating Positive Emotions: Long Term
- [Lesson] Values and Priorities List
- [Activity] Getting from Values to Specific Action Steps.
- [Activity] Getting from Values to Specific Action Steps.
- [Activity] Diary of Daily Actions on Values and Priorities.
- [Lesson] Build Mastery and Cope Ahead.
- [Activity] Build Mastery and Cope Ahead.
- [Activity] Putting ABC Skills Together Day by Day.
- [Lesson] Taking Care of Your Mind by Taking Care of Your Body.
- [Activity] Practicing PLEASE Skills.
- [Lesson] Nightmare Protocol, Step by Step.
- [Activity] Target Nightmare Experience Form
- [Lesson] Sleep Hygiene Protocol.
- [Activity] Sleep Hygiene Practice Sheet.
DBT Emotion Regulation: Managing Really Difficult Emotions
- [Lesson] Overview Managing Really Difficult Emotions
- [Lesson] Mindfulness of Current Emotions – Letting Go of Emotional Suffering
- [Activity] Mindfulness of Current Emotions
- [Lesson] Managing Extreme Emotions
- [Lesson] Troubleshooting Emotion Regulation Skills – When what you are doing isn’t working
- [Activity] Troubleshooting Emotion Regulation Skills
- [Lesson] Review of Skills for Emotion Regulation